Friday through Sunday. Apologies for one fell swoop of an entry
(also, "Sistew" is a deliberate typo and part of the Linda/Chrissie historical lore. Intentionally used here)
Friday:
Started the day with a little bit of a sleep-in. I heard Doug come upstairs to start working and I just kept sleeping. He didn't have a meeting so I was able to just be in bed behind him. Eventually I had to pee so I got up.
Lin was working on the porch, Toffee was enjoying the sunshine and lounging under the tree. I baked banana muffins and eventually we got our butts on the road. We stopped for me to get bloodwork done, and headed to our hotel in Virginia.
Traffic is always hellacious going to and from, and we did sit in a horrible backup for over a half hour. I had wanted us to get here, get Lin her shower, get organized, go and be at the park by 5 but we got there much later. I had tried to put together a meet up, based on advice from the venue that we gather "In the Meadows."
But literally everything in the park and interior venue has the name of Meadow, Meadows, Meadow related things. I thought I gave people good guidance for where to aim but somehow that wasn't enough. Herding cats via text and email is not my strong suit.
By the time we got there, no one had gathered (I did get a text from one of the fan group members saying "There's this area with a lot of picnic tables near the concessions but the picnic tables aren't super close together..."
Yes friend, THAT's the area - claim a table, stand there in your Guster shirt, and look welcoming. Or something. Okay.
The show was amazing. First of all, Wolf Trap is really neat if not kind of a pain in the ass to get to. It is confusing inside but once you're in and you know where your seats are you are alright.
Guster put on a hell of a performance. They only played about an hour as they were the opening act. They pulled some nice things out of their hat, including Elevator as the second song. Okay pull the tear jerker out right at the start.
When your favorite band is the opening act, sometimes the crowd around you, who is there for the headliner, isn't into it. Last night I found that people were super fun. Tons and tons of Guster fans all around. The women a couple rows behind us were trying to take selfies, so I did my usual "Can I take a photo for you?" thing and they were happy to hand me the phone.
One of them was from Tennessee, the other from Mississippi. They had these cute little handmade pins on with an acronym that I didn't ask about. One asked if I was there for Guster or the Avetts.
"Both, really," I answered. I've seen Guster a million times but this is my first Avetts show.
They were both thrilled, and said "oh you are in for a treat if you've never seen them!"
"I am aware, and I've wanted to see them forever so I'm happy that my boys are their support act," I said. "Are you familiar with Guster?" I asked.
"We did our research," one lady said. When I heard an album that they did that was all a cat meowing the lyrics, I thought that was hilarious and I said, I'm in. These guys are alright."
For reference, that link takes you to Spotify and you can listen to the Meow Mix versions of the songs. There is a story, there are reasons why, but suffice to say. Very silly.
"I don't think they are going to meow any of the songs tonight, but I'm glad that you thought that was funny. I hope you like them."
After they played both of them gave me thumbs up and big smiles.
There was an intermission between acts so we went around looking for friends. Lots were around, and we got to chat with folks.
The Avett Brothers are legit one of the most exciting and energetic bands I've ever seen. I think Doug once said they are "the best rock and roll band with a cello and a banjo on earth."
They played for nearly two hours, I was absolutely impressed. Got to hear some of my favorites like Head Full Of Doubt, February 7, Satan Pulls The Strings, and Ain't No Man. A lot of covers, bluegrass and americana, and a few songs that my friend Ben (who was texting me from Massachusetts and is a giant Avetts fan) told me that they rarely play like the Ballad Of Love And Hate, and Bella Donna.
We got a ride back to our hotel from our friends (hilariously, I squeezed my ass into the way back of their 7 seater mom mobile, and then I could not get out. Ha!)
Sleep.
Saturday:
We managed to sleep to 9. Linda usually can't sleep past 7 so I'm proud of her for getting there, and falling back asleep when she woke up around 7:30. Power through, sister!
Coffee, shower, ready to go, and hungry, we headed to Maryland to see my work wife's son play in his concert with School of Rock. He plays bass, and I've gone to each of his shows so far, just like Hen's. They are in different schools but I feel like they'd like meeting up someday.
The trip there and back was long, but worth it. We spent almost 2 hours, the band did great, we ate a lot of food, we had a lot of fun. Their group did amazing, the songs are probably very hard to play for them. One was Toxicity by System of a Down which... is a challenge. The vocalist was a young black kid who had this amazing face paint on. I'd post pictures but I don't have parental permission (even though it was in a public space and all I want to be conscious of that). My friend doesn't want her son's face on the internet so I don't post the pics I take of him.
After they were done and I'd eaten my weight in french fries (they make really good fries at this venue) over to the cupcake store to get some nice cuppie cakes for our friend R's birthday. It's the 22nd, but we won't see her since it is mid week and all and there isn't a Guster concert as a reason for a gathering.
We had a hellacious time in traffic, sang songs about how 495 sucks ass and is a dick. On paper this is a 1 hour trip pushes to 2 and a half. We got back to the hotel far later than I'd intended, but we still got over to the venue for time for meeting up with friends. About a dozen of us were at the gathering, including R. And she was very surprised by the cupcakes and celebrating of her.
My friend Jeff from high school was there with his partner, and sister (oxford comma lets you know his sister is not also his partner. This is why we use her). We had a short catch up, which was super nice and then didn't see each other again during or after. I love that he ends up at the Gusters when they come to town, and he sees bands 2 or 3 nights, sometimes more, every week. I don't know how he does it!
He had amazing seats and posted a bunch of videos on Instagram.
The shows were once again great. I do think that Wolf Trap is one of the nicest venues with the sweetest staff I've ever met, but the lighting is piss poor. I had to watch the screens to see the show, instead of watching the stage. There is no spotlighting or light on the front of the stage on the band, so it is just weird. But the screens seemed to have some sort of magical lighting so the performers looked good.
My buddy H gets restless and he has a step counter on his watch, so both nights we went for walks at the venue. There are a lot of stairs, and a large area up top so we did a loop on Friday night, and a half loop on Saturday.
The Avetts were playing and they did a huge bluegrass jam and we were up on the main level, giant screens and people on the lawn enjoying themselves but not really paying attention to the music. The lawn scene feels more like a social gathering and I guess that's okay. You've got a giant TV and music playing. Chat and eat cheese and drink wine.
I asked Hen if he liked bluegrass and he said he did. This particular song was a lot about Jesus so he had questions about why bluegrass seems to always have a religious element. I thought that was an astute observation from an 11 year old. He likes the banjo. Thinks it has a neat sound. And the Avetts were pouring a lot of banjo into the night air.
We had a good time.
Back to the hotel after a couple quick friend photos and off to bed. I always have a hard time falling asleep after concerts and usually am awake until after 2am. Thank goodness for Zquill.
Sunday
Sadly, our fun weekend was over and it was time to go. Linda decided she needed to head home instead of stay at our place for another day. She needed to have a full, dedicated work day and if she stayed with us, she'd have to leave at a reasonable hour during the workday so.
I had wanted to take some backroads home, go through Loudoun County, head over to Great Falls and take a walk with her, but we had to boogie.
Again, on paper, trips should take X amount of time and on this Sunday morning, the paper was right. We breezed up through Montgomery County where usually it would be a giant parking lot any time unexpectedly and 70 was a pretty ride.
It is going to be really extra pretty coming up here in the next few weeks and I imagined how we'll be taking some toodle aboot drives around Frederick and Washington Counties. Maybe even down Skyline Drive. We'll see.
Lin left around 1pm and was home relatively quickly. She noted that it was dark by 7-ish and that makes me sad. We're headed to that time of year where it is dark early and I hate it. I hate not being able to drive at night. Boooooooo.
Geoff went to a concert in Baltimore on Sunday night and Doug and I had no dinner plans. He seemed like he didn't really care of there was dinner but I was getting hungry at 6. Of course, that's when you mix up a quiche and it takes until 8pm to be ready.
Of course, of course. But nothing in my refrigerator spoke to me. I had to make due.
I sautéed a red onion and shrooms, I found a stick of goat cheese and crumbled that up, I made bacon (that was the long part, 20 minutes for bacon in the oven...) and the quiche took about an hour to bake. It was great, and of course Doug ate the hell out of it.
I also didn't make an effort at steps. I took a nap instead (must have needed it!) and watched football. Sat on my ass the entire day pretty much. Will make up for things during the week so I don't lose my weekly average 10k+ steps. 6k is a pretty deep drop so. Wish me luck in that!
Some pictures, and digits below for 3 days (to the best of my recollection).
H took our selfie. Selfies run rampant around these parts.
I haven't seen this friend since Red Rocks in 2021.
"I have to get a selfie as proof to send [his daughter]"
I haven't seen her either in a few years so, yay!
Managed to get one semi-decent picture of Guster. My phone camera sucks. lol.
Happy Birthday R!
At the School of Rock show, there were several kids who had on
these Baltimore Orioles/Turnstile baseball jerseys.
I thought it was super cool
Friday digits
exercise: 12/12 hours. Walk around Wolf Trap 18 min/.51 mi. 12k+ steps by bedtime
blood glucose:
9:30am: 116
xpm: n/a
11:45pm: 105
food & meds:
9:30am: jardiance & new meds
10:30am: banana muffin (homemade)
11:30am: yeah, another muffin
3:30pm: new meds; chicken fried chicken, eggs, biscuit/gravy
7pm: met+glip
wine
Saturday digits
exercise: 12/12 hours. not as much walking but still 10k by bedtime
blood glucose:
9:30am: 119
xpm: n/a
midnight: 174
food & meds:
9:30am: jardiance & new meds
2pm: food at the brewery - lots of french fries, a really great pizza w/goat cheese, fig jam, onions. damn. 2 beers met+glip
5pm: new meds
6:30pm: cupcake
wine
Sunday digits
exercise: 11/12 hours. napped through 3pm. No walk, 6k+ steps by bedtime
blood glucose:
8:30am: 121
4:15pm: 171
10pm: 127
food & meds:
9:30am: jardiance & new meds
1:30pm: granola in a bowl with milk (I thought it would be like breakfast cereal and it was not); met+glip
4pm: new meds
8pm: 2 big slices of quiche; met+glip
white wine