We went to the dog park today.
Toffee had a ton of fun with a husky and I had a great time talking with her human. It actually wasn't her human. The dog lives next door, and the owners of the dog keep her outside 24/7. I didn't get the girl's name, but, she said she gets home from work and gets the dog, and brings her to the dog park. Then she feeds her. Sometimes she takes her to Tractor Supply because they have a dog washing facility there, and she'll get a good bath, brush, and blow out.
It's not her dog. But. She has called Animal Control to ask what can be done, and they said "nothing. She's up to date on her shots, she's healthy, her owners aren't doing anything wrong."
The girl and I looked at each other like.... "Yeah, but."
She can't just take the dog into her house. She has two cats who are 12, she adopted them at the same time and they are her everything. And they hate dogs. So while they are alive, the Husky lives her life.
"But someday. someday I think maybe. You know. I'll ask."
I imagined this beautiful husky getting her first night's sleep in a bed. And it will be delightful. I know it will.
There was another dog who was very scared of Toffee and the Husky, but, tolerant. The dog dad is trying to get her comfortable with other dogs and so I hope Toffee wasn't too too "Toffee" for her. She seemed fine by the time we left. Doug said he and the guy had a really good talk about the dog, and how they just moved into downtown, and they have to walk up 4 flights of stairs to their apartment... every time the dog needs to go out, down and up 4 flights.
I heard him say "it's good for her, and it's good for me. I've already lost some weight."
We were there about 45 minutes and then, there was a budding altercation between some other dog folks.
A woman had brought her VERY LARGE male pittie mix into the "small dog" area, which is clearly labeled for dogs 25 lbs and smaller.
I mentioned that to the Husky companion, and she said "Yeah, she goes in there because her dog is mean and aggressive."
Ohhhh.
That dog was easily 65-80 pounds. He was the only dog in that area, and ran up and down the fence with Toffee and the Husky, bark bark bark snarl bark bark. I could see why she was on that side. It wouldn't be good play if there was no fence between them but they all three seemed to be having a great time.
Run yourselves to exhaustion, sillies! That's how I felt.
But a pair of women showed up, one with a big dog an one with a little.
The one with the big dog I've seen before. She's one of these Dog Park Police kinds of people so she started to have words with the woman with the big dog in the little dog area, letting her know that she needed to leave the little dog area because a little dog wanted to come in.
The big dog owner lady argued back "I come in this side all the time and no one is here so there's no problem with it."
Dog Park Police Lady (DPPL): Well there's a little dog now, and he wants to come into his area. So you need to bring your dog in here (the big dog area) or go elsewhere.
Big Scary Dog Owner Lady (BSDOL): Well you can't make me do anything.
DPPL: Oh yes I can.
She whipped her cel phone out and you know she has park administration/security on speed dial. I signaled to Doug that I thought it was time to go. Because if that big dog was going to come into the big dog side, it could be rough. I didn't want to experience this.
DPPL has a dog, a cute scruffy scruff scruffer named Tilly. She (DPPL) told me last time we were there that "Toffee is okay but she needs to learn how to behave with the other dogs. She's getting better. But you need to work on her training."
Oh okay thanks.
So yeah, I didn't want to be there if BSDOL and her dog were going to come in, and I didn't feel like being there with DPPL, so we rounded the Toff up, and we headed out. Friendly like.
And the Husky was sad.
I wish I got some good pictures of them.They had a hell of a good time playing with each other, and it made me miss Meg. I miss her so much.
Anyway. More stories.
On the way into the park, we saw a guy with his car broken down kind of in the entrance of the park. He was pacing around on the phone, I guess trying to get someone to come help him. I didn't think much of it.
On the way out of the park, we saw him starting to drive away and he was mouthing off at some guy who obviously had just helped him with his car. The car helper guy was using his air compressor to put some air in his own back tire and mouthed back "It's okay man, just let it go, let it go, there's plenty of fish out there, plenty of fish," and I could not figure out what the hell that was all about.
As we got closer, he was mumbling "you try to help someone, you just try to help, and they shit all over you and they ...." and he looks at us. "I just helped that guy with his car, and he got all shitty with me, and he was hitting his woman, pushing her around, and I told him to stop it. You don't put your hands on a woman. You don't do that."
"Yeah but some guys do, I guess," I said.
"Yeah but you don't," he stressed.
"Yeah, you don't but some guys ... they still do," I said. He nodded and shook his head at the same time.
"I just got out of work at XXXXX garage, and all I want to do is go get some meatloaf." he named the restaurant but I can't remember what it is. "And I stop to help and ...."
And then he saw Miss Toffee, and brightened right up. And he stopped fussing. He wanted to know if she was red nose or blue nose, which we didn't know what that meant. I told him we didn't know, she's just all cute nose. He thought that was funny.
He wanted to pat her but he said his hands were too dirty from working at the garage and then helping that asshole guy. I told him to pet her, if it will make him happy. And he did, and it did. He got his face in her face and she licked him all up, which we usually discourage but he was thrilled to get some doggie love.
He told us his name is Saint.
What?
"Your parents named you that? That's your Government Name? Your Christian Name? Saint?" I asked.
"Your parents set high goals for you," said Doug. The guy laughed and showed us his tattoos with his name.
"I love my name. I named my son after me," he said. "Saint Junior."
I tried not to laugh. The thought of Saint and Saint Junior kind of hit me funny right than, and then I sort of really loved it all. I loved all of it.
The guy knelt down to get the compressor off his tire, and I said "Well, you keep on being a saint, Saint."
He looked at me, and I got some really big "cousin Jimmy" energy off of him right at that second. My sister is going to know what that means and hopefully is laughing her ass off right now as she reads this.
Looking me right in the eye, he said "I'm gonna cry now, ma'am."
Everyone calling me ma'am here in my new hometown lately. Damn.
"I needed to hear that. It's gonna make me cry."
"Go get your meatloaf, sir," I said. Doug was already 20 feet ahead of me and I needed to get out of the road because there was a car coming at me so fast, and I thought for sure this dipshit was going to run me over while me and Saint were waxing kindness at each other.
Doug turned to me and said, "there are a lot of characters in this town."
Yes ma'am, there are.
Digits below the one shot of Toffee and Husky dog.
digits
exercise: 12/12 hours. two measured walks to and from the dog park. To: 15 min/.61 mil. From: 14 min/.61 mile. 10k+ by bedtime
blood glucose:
8:30am: 135
4pm: 102
10:30pm: 125
food & meds:
8:30am: jaridance
10:30am: bowl of mac & cheese w/hamburger
noon: met+glip
4pm: almond and peanutbutter granola bar
7pm: 2 pieces of stromboli (cheese, pepperoni, sausage, green pepper filling); wine+diet ginger ale
7:30pm: met+glip
8pm: candied nuts (gotta finish this container!)